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by Nomi Berger
Are you taken aback by the sight of your cats showing you their butts? Although this behavior may seem shocking – even inappropriate – to you, it’s actually extremely common when your cats feel comfortable around you.
Much like their canine counterparts, cats often show other cats their butts whenever they greet one another. Why? The glands located near their butts contain essential scent “information.” And felines with relaxed, loose bodies and their tails pointing straight up indicate that they’re friendly.
Cats often display their affection for their fellow felines by rubbing their bodies against each other, beginning with their heads and ending with their tails. Your cats will also rub against you if they like or love you, and since, once again, they’ll begin with their heads, they’ll, quite naturally, end with their butts facing you.
Cats show you their butts to reassure you that they’re not a threat, that they mean you no harm, and have no intention of attacking you. This is in direct contrast to agitated or aggressive cats. Why? These cats won’t turn their backs to you. Their posture will be stiff and their hair will be raised, making them look larger. Some may crouch instead and flatten their ears, while others may vocalize their agitation by growling or yowling.
Being observant and watchful creatures, cats won’t turn their backs on people they’re leery of or don’t trust. Therefore, if your cats’ butts are facing you while they’re either lounging or sleeping, it’s a clear – and welcome — sign that they truly trust you.
Experts at attracting their owners’ attention, contented cats will show you their butts as their way of “asking for” a much-appreciated and much-enjoyed scratch above their tails. Pair that with an especially strong and positive response on your part, such as a loud laugh, and they’ll learn that showing you their butts is an effective way to get your attention. If, on the other hand, you’d prefer that they didn’t persist in this behavior, do NOT reward it with either a scratch or a laugh. As an added deterrent, redirect your cats’ focus by simply walking away or by distracting them with one of their favorite toys.
